Other/further/more self-defense instruction
(these are all schools/instructors that I personally know or have a connection to, and know that they are empowerment based, feminist in orientation, and queer-friendly)

Hand To Hand Kajukenbo and Self-Defense Center Women-led, diverse, supportive, friendly, fierce, amazing

KES Fitness Old-school gym in West Oakland with welcoming, supportive staff. They love to train women to fight hard and win. 

Okinawan Karate Club of San Francisco I have met people who train here and love it. Women-led. 

IMPACT Bay Area The Bay Area's only full-force, adrenalized self-defense training. 

 

LGBTQI-Friendly weapons training in the Bay Area

Bolt Defense Nick offers training in firearms and pepper spray defense. He knows his stuff and is an ally. 

A Google map of trainers (note: I cannot vouch for any of the folks on this map; they have all self-selected and I don't know any of them personally)